Self-Care Tips to Make it Through the Winter

Welp, it’s #groundhogday and the furball has predicted we will be getting 6 more weeks of winter. What better time to start brainstorming (and reminding ourselves) of some go-to tips for self-care this cold, dark season.

Winter can be a challenging time for many people, with shorter days, colder weather, and the pressure of holiday festivities (at least we’re on the other end of most holiday stressors, thank goodness).

Here are some of my go-to self-care tips to help you get through the winter season:

1. Get enough sleep: Maintaining a consistent sleep schedule can help to boost mood and energy levels during the winter months. Plus there’s nothing better than going to bed early and getting cozy on a cold night.

2. Exercise regularly: Regular exercise can help to improve mood and boost energy levels, and can be especially beneficial during the shorter days of winter. You might have to get creative with your exercise of choice to do inside on particularly brutal, cold days.

3. Spend time in nature: Spending time outdoors, even for just a few minutes, can help to improve mood and boost energy levels. On a SUNNY, bluebird winter day this is key!!!

4. Stay connected with others: Social support is important all year round, but it can be especially important during the winter months when it can be easy to feel isolated. Call a friend or set up a game night (in person, or virtual).

5. Take care of your physical health: Eating a balanced diet, staying hydrated, and avoiding alcohol and caffeine can help to improve mood and energy levels. For those coming off from #dryjanuary, how are you feeling? Even if you have zero interest in cutting back caffeine or alcohol, you can still set a goal to drink more water :)

6. Practice self-care: Make time for self-care activities that bring you joy and help you relax, such as taking a bath, reading, or practicing mindfulness. 5 minutes a day can make a big difference!

7. Think of (or plan ahead) for something exciting in the early spring! This could be something big like a trip or vacation, or something small- like taking a walk or getting an ice cream cone on the first warm, warm day of spring! I love to start planning my garden in the winter, imagining all my seedlings and blooms that will be here in April/May!

8. Find a way to enjoy the winter! If you have the opportunity to engage in winter sports (ice skating, snow shoeing, skiing, etc), take advantage when you can! Maybe even be open to learning something new or improving a long-lost skill, haha. I’m terrible at ice skating, but always have a great time trying.

9. Seek professional help: If you're struggling with seasonal affective disorder (SAD) or other mood-related issues, consider seeking the help of a mental health professional. As always, you can reach out to me to connect or if you have any questions.

Remember, it's important to be kind to yourself and to prioritize self-care during the winter months. By focusing on your well-being and taking care of your mental and physical health, you can help to get through the winter season feeling your best.

It’s February and we are truly on the home stretch! Stay warm, get some sunshine when you can, and cozy-up with a good book, movie, or furball to cuddle with :)

Staying Active and FIGHTING BACK against Winter!

Today was/is cold. The first brutally cold day in NYC. (Though an appropriate seasonal reminder of what the weather should be like). Winter sucks. The days are short. It's cold. And most people are either crankily hustling around the city or are hibernating (and social gatherings and interactions become increasingly rare). Winter can be isolating and depressing. It's supposed to be a time of year when people make New Year's resolutions and plan a fresh (productive) start to the new year..... but it's hard, very hard. Today, for me, the deep bone-chilling wind had me (momentarily) questioning my next goal-race on my calendar.

Each and every year (for the past 3 years) I have signed up for a half marathon in the early spring. If I don't have a race planned, a clear goal, and a training calendar as my guide- I'm worried I just won't keep running or stay active in the winter. (because, let's be honest, who wants to run in the winter?? Not me! that's for sure). Staying motivated in the dead of winter can feel impossible.

Signing up for races keeps me accountable and active, especially in the winter (when most mornings I really just want to stay in PJ's-- or in bed-- a bit longer, and enjoy a nice cup of coffee in the warm surroundings of my Brooklyn apartment). But with my goal set, I somehow am much more likely to get up when I should and head outside to log some miles. The problem is..... it's cold, super cold.

So, it's time to FIGHT BACK. 

My top 5 tips for surviving winter and staying active:

• Set a goal- as I shared, I typically sign up for a half marathon in March (this year, it'll actually be in February). Your goal doesn't have to be so crazy. But it should be something to hold you accountable and keep you focused short-term to get through these hard months. Tell your friends and family about it- and don't just tell them about the race (or goal), but tell them about your PROGRESS. Each and every little step, share it! Be proud of the hard work you're putting in, and find cheerleaders in your life who will support you.
• Reward yourself- staying active in the winter is HARD WORK. You should most-definitely be rewarded for this. Think of some possible rewards that might help keep you on track. Treat yourself to something nice. After doing something active for x-number of days (whatever # works for you? After 3 days? 5 days? 10 days?), allow yourself a treat. Do you like shopping? For each mile logged (or each 15 minute increment at the gym), allow yourself $5 in a fun shopping outting. [25 miles completed this week.... $125 shopping spree!]. Is ice-cream more your style? Or a nice bottle of wine?  Sleeping in on the weekends? Set a reward, stick to your criteria (NO CHEATING), do what you need to do.... and then enjoy what you earned! 
• Be flexible- I am a strong proponent of rest-days. I find them helpful scheduled into my training schedule in advance, but also allow many “flex days” which can easily be switched to an off/rest day. If there’s an insane blizzard outside or even if it’s a wonderfully warm winter day (which we’ve had a few of) that would be oh-so-perfect for running/going outside, but you just don’t feel like it…. Allow yourself a day off. Don’t feel bad about it. Just get back out there the next day!
• Positive self-talk- it helps. When you are doubting yourself, think of your goals. Think of how strong and incredible you are, and that you are more than 100000% able to do this one thing. Repeat a mantra that works for you. Visualize the end result of your goal (finishing a race, getting stronger, feeling more confident). Buy shower crayons and write notes to yourself in the shower (i do this, true story). Whatever you can say (aloud) or think/visualize or write down that is positive and reassuring and motivating. DO IT. 
• Get a buddy- If you can, get a friend to join you. Maybe they'll join you and sign up for a race too! Even better. Or perhaps you can only get them to commit to a day at the gym, or even a walk through the park or along the waterfront will do. Search for your local running clubs (or club of interest). If group runs aren't your thing, and you can't get a friend to join you... consider indoor classes at one of my favorite spots in the city, Mile High Run Club (where you get to run indoors, surrounded by people of all paces/abilities, and with a coach encouraging you along throughout the full workout). And lastly, you could consider alternate routes to finding a new jogging buddy :) :

If you need further inspiration, or have questions/comments. Please reach out! You can contact me anytime. 

Stay Warm. Stay Active. Stay Happy!